Hi,
I'm after a Ford OBD2 connector, will this one work?.

Universal OBD2 16Pin Female Connector | eBay

Or if anybody has one they don't want, I'm happy to pay for it..

Paul

The one in my kit was pulled from a scrap Peugeot 406. It's a pretty standard thing just make sure you get a lump of loom with it!

...seen here snuggled-up to my fuse box above the passenger footwell:

The 16 pin connector format is standard but the pins that are used for communications are different between manufacturers.

See http://www.gendan.co.uk/article_3.html