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What is it with people? Rant warning
mookaloid - 4/11/09 at 08:36 AM

I have recently replied to a few U2U's where people have asked me for info about stuff. I have spent time giving as full an explanation as I can in order to help, they read the U2U and that's it - no thanks for that Mark, no cheers that's been useful, not even a sorry that's not what I wanted but thanks anyway - just nothing

Is it just me? I always say thank you when someone is kind enough to take the time to help me. grrrr

Rant over

Cheers

Mark


stevec - 4/11/09 at 08:38 AM

Its not just you.
Steve.


balidey - 4/11/09 at 08:39 AM

But if they reply with a 'thankyou' are you then expected to return a 'you're welcome' ?

But I do agree, common courtesy and manners don't cost anything. And U2U's are free, not like a txt

[Edited on 4/11/09 by balidey]


Steve Hignett - 4/11/09 at 08:53 AM

Definitely, not just you...
Steve


scootz - 4/11/09 at 09:06 AM

Which reminds me... a couple of guys have asked me for thoughts on the RS4 and RX8 installs, but during a U2U 'tidy', I zapped their messages too. Sorry... if the peeps are reading this then please message me again!

Getting back OT though... yes, agreed!


l0rd - 4/11/09 at 09:10 AM

I have sold a couple of things to some members, I was hoping that I would have posted it on Monday but being back at work after a week of holidays and the workload, i didn't manage to do so.

I u2u everybody to say i am sorry. Everyone was very understanding and where fine with it.

I still feel bad though.


Macbeast - 4/11/09 at 09:20 AM

It's the same on Freecycle. People ask for things, you reply offering and you hear no more. Peasants!


mookaloid - 4/11/09 at 09:48 AM

quote:
Originally posted by balidey
But if they reply with a 'thankyou' are you then expected to return a 'you're welcome' ?

But I do agree, common courtesy and manners don't cost anything. And U2U's are free, not like a txt

[Edited on 4/11/09 by balidey]


I don't think a "you're welcome" is inappropriate, I've been known to do that


Richard Quinn - 4/11/09 at 09:59 AM

Thanks for posting


mookaloid - 4/11/09 at 10:53 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Richard Quinn
Thanks for posting


You're welcome


James - 4/11/09 at 11:47 AM

It's not just them!

I'm guilty of it- you've just reminded me I owe someone a reply to an unprompted helpful u2u.

Ah! the guilt!

Will send it ASAP now!

Cheers,
James


Richard Quinn - 4/11/09 at 12:44 PM

Just remember - It's nice to be nice!


jacko - 4/11/09 at 05:15 PM

Thankyou for all the help you gave my over the years Mark
And it's your round next time we meet
Graham


dhutch - 4/11/09 at 06:05 PM

I know what you mean.
- Its like the 'why done people leave feedback on ebay' thread. Often hearing nothing back is a good thing (speed camera?) but even more often its nice to get a thankyou. Otherwise your left feeling empty.


Daniel


t.j. - 4/11/09 at 06:24 PM

reminds me:

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and your God;
It was never between you and them anyway.


mookaloid - 4/11/09 at 07:55 PM

quote:
Originally posted by t.j.
reminds me:

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and your God;
It was never between you and them anyway.


I quite like that


mookaloid - 4/11/09 at 07:56 PM

quote:
Originally posted by jacko
Thankyou for all the help you gave my over the years Mark
And it's your round next time we meet
Graham


Thank you for all the help you are going to give me

I think you are right about it being my round


jacko - 4/11/09 at 08:20 PM

quote:
Originally posted by mookaloid
quote:
Originally posted by jacko
Thankyou for all the help you gave my over the years Mark
And it's your round next time we meet
Graham


Thank you for all the help you are going to give me

I think you are right about it being my round


Any time Mate