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Author: Subject: Moral dilemma - Do I tell the missus the shed was broken into?
eznfrank

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:05 PM Reply With Quote
Moral dilemma - Do I tell the missus the shed was broken into?

I'll start by saying "F'ING ROBBING GYPSY BASTARDS!!!!!!!!!!!!"

I thought I was going to spend the morning working on the car but after an hour or so I looked out only to see the shed door wide open. They've taken a De Walt bench chop saw that belonged to my dad and I think there was a decking nail gun thing of his in there too. Been fortifying the garage for the last hour or so, there's a window right next to the shed so they may have looked in and I don't want them to come back.

I'm quite surprised as I thought I was reasonably secure, the garden has a 4-5 foot fence all the way round, a locked gate, isn't visible from the road and the only real way out is via my neighbours garden and he's a retired rugby player who more than once has had burglars by the throat in the street in the middle of the night.

I don't think I'll claim on my insurance, hardly seems worth it.

Anyway, my dilemma is whether to tell the wife or not. I work away from time to time and she get's a bit scared in the house on her own anyway, although we've never had any bother and I think the house is reasonably secure plus my very large mate lives 4 doors down and she his number on speed dial just in case.

So do I tell her or just not bother?

[Edited on 16/1/10 by eznfrank]

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Steve Hignett

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:10 PM Reply With Quote
Reinforce as much as possible, leave nothing in view.

Get a couple of those simple flashing LED's that do nothing else.

And as for your dilemma, I prob wouldn't tell your missus, or I would make up a story that someone else's place was broken into, to remind her to ensure all windows and doors are locked etc...






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mookaloid

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:16 PM Reply With Quote
My Mrs had her car radio nicked from her car on the driveway during the night - fortunately we lived next door to a CID man at the time and he was a light sleeper and heard the window being broken. He called out reinforcements and the perps were apprehended - all good!

However after they had let them go with a light slap on the wrist and don't be naughty any more chaps, they came back a few weeks later and tried again this time they didn't get as far as breaking anything and I only found out about it when my neighbour told me they had been back.

I made the big mistake of telling my Mrs about it - she got very upset and wanted to sell the car, move house and couldn't sleep for ages - not a happy bunny

Wish I hadn't told her.....





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Ben_Copeland

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:25 PM Reply With Quote
I agree, best not to tell her.....

Fortify and alarm (real or fake) and hope they dont come back.





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A1

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:28 PM Reply With Quote
dont tell her, buy a high powered rifle and a big ass dog.
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gottabedone

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:29 PM Reply With Quote
Women generally consider the home (even the shed) a bit more sacred than us blokes. We get stampy feet and maube a bit punchy. It is very common for women to want to move after a burglary (even to your shed - beofre someone kindly points that out)
Your dilemma isn't an easy one as she sounds quite jumpy already. I wouldn't tell her but would probably get your local crime prevention chap round for some advice.


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thunderace

posted on 16/1/10 at 01:29 PM Reply With Quote
NAIL SOME CARPET GRIPPERS TO THE INSIDE OF THE FENCE AT BIT THE CAME OVER AT .
OR1 -2LB FISHING LINE WITH A SMALL WEIGHT ATTACHED IN A TUBE WITH A DOOR BELL BUTTON ON IT(WHEN THEY SNAP THE LINE THE WEIGHT WILL DROP DOWN THE TUBE SETING THE BELL OFF. IT WILL RING JUST MAKE SURE THE WEIGHT CANT COME OUT THE TOP OF THE TUBE(YOU COULD DO THE SAME BUT NO BELL JUST A NAIL AND A EMPTY SHOT GUN CARTRAGE BANG!!!) GOING TO THE HOUSE OR OUTSIDE IT WILL RING AND THEY WONT COME BACK.
JUST SOME CHEEP EASY IDEAS THAT WORK

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ashg

posted on 16/1/10 at 02:01 PM Reply With Quote
someone had a go at the shed at my old house. my dog relieved the the scrott of a chunk of leg. Jack Russells although small are very territorial of the garden when it comes to strangers jumping over the fence.

at the new house all the outbuildings are alarmed and i have motion sensors in the garden that make a beeping sound in the house when people walk through the beam

you cant be to careful these days.

i recall reading somewhere that a high percentage of theft is committed by someone you know. you just have to be careful who you speak to these days especially in the pub etc.

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RichardK

posted on 16/1/10 at 02:04 PM Reply With Quote
It would only become a moral dilemma if she caught wind of it and asked me a direct question.... lie or truth.... Personally I wouldn't say anything myself unless she asked the question, then would have to come clean. Maybe worth mentioning to Dad not to say anything too, I'm assuming you're going to have to tell him as its his tools they've nicked and need to be replaced.

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Mr Whippy

posted on 16/1/10 at 02:10 PM Reply With Quote
no don't tell her but do make the fence more difficult to climb over. If she's not happy being on her own this is hardly going to improve matters. Just tell her your making the place more secure to make her feel better






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MikeR

posted on 16/1/10 at 02:20 PM Reply With Quote
don't put spikes on the fence - the police will do you.

go to wicks / b&q etc and find trellis on offer - buy some cause you thought it would be nice to grow some stuff up them this year. Put the trellis up and it a) makes the fence higher and b) more difficult to climb over without making a noise (breaking it).

wife won't know why and you've just made it more secure.

In a few days time / perhaps a week or two, get a leaflet from the police about securing your home due to hearing about the neighbour and plant the spikey plants that deter them.

I'd also get things alarmed - even just a simple shed alarm will help.

sorry to hear about your trouble and good luck.

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rgrs

posted on 16/1/10 at 03:01 PM Reply With Quote
Do not do anthing that could cause injury to anyone, unfortunately you could end up getting prosecuted for injuring a scroat.

Best best is to use security lighting to deter in the first place and a diy alarm (or professional) to draw attention if someone was to attempt entry.

Roger

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02GF74

posted on 16/1/10 at 03:56 PM Reply With Quote
sorry to hear that, never good.

you need lights and sound that get triggered in case of brake in.

I don't subscribe to PC nor HSE when defending my property and put barberd wire over fence at my sister's when the neighbours got robbed and her gate was forced.






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Puzzled

posted on 16/1/10 at 05:53 PM Reply With Quote
shed

Get a bucket, put some grease in it, get some fresh dod shit, the softer the better, mix to a nice creamy consistancy. With a filling knife place it on the top of the fence in a continuous line forming a little triangle shape, this will keep the bastards out. It worked for me!!!!
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luke

posted on 16/1/10 at 09:52 PM Reply With Quote
anti climb paint. wrecks there perfect trakkies and trainers!
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Ninehigh

posted on 17/1/10 at 08:00 AM Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by rgrs
Do not do anthing that could cause injury to anyone, unfortunately you could end up getting prosecuted for injuring a scroat.

Best best is to use security lighting to deter in the first place and a diy alarm (or professional) to draw attention if someone was to attempt entry.

Roger


Yeah if you're going to do something that would cause injury make sure they disintegrate!

Aside from that the grease and dog poo idea sounds good. My dad has a thin plank nailed to the top of the fence that "would easily come off" if someone tried to climb over exposing a bunch of big rusty nails..






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