Poll: Name and Shame or Leave [View Results]
Name and shame and stay
Name and shame and Leave (for a while)
Keep it to you and stay
Keep it to you and leave.



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Angel Acevedo

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:32 PM Reply With Quote
Name and Shame or Leave

AS title....
Regarding a recent thread....
I know which one I would do...





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mookaloid

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:40 PM Reply With Quote
don't have a clue what you are on about





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posted on 17/8/10 at 04:41 PM Reply With Quote
Kind of immaterial if he's already left wouldn't you say.
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stevegough

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:41 PM Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mookaloid
don't have a clue what you are on about


That applies to most of us!





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snapper

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:42 PM Reply With Quote
I think the leaving part is the thing you should not do.
What purpose would leaving do?





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tegwin

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:43 PM Reply With Quote
We dont know the circumstances of the bullying etc..

Its best that the person in question talks to the mods in confidence if they feel they need to...

There is no point in shouting about this chap, why give him the attention he obviously so depseratly wants?!?? Just ignore him...





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procomp

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:43 PM Reply With Quote
Hi

No option for contacting Fozzie. !!

Cheers Matt






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Humbug

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:50 PM Reply With Quote
. None of the above

I would sort it out via Fozzie behind the scenes and, if warranted when all the facts are known, Foz/admins could then possibly ban the guilty party/parties. To my mind there is no real mileage in discussing in public issues suffered by (AFAIK) one member here.

[Edited on 17.08.2010 by Humbug]

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Fozzie

posted on 17/8/10 at 04:53 PM Reply With Quote
I am always here to help and assist when required.......but first I have to be made aware that there is a problem......everything is always confidential, and will stay that way.

But if no-one has contacted me to say that they do have a problem, I am unable to do anything....

Asking the 'victim' to 'name and shame' would also put pressure on the person when that person is already upset.

I know you mean well Angel, but really this thread is pointless...sorry...

Fozzie





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posted on 17/8/10 at 05:21 PM Reply With Quote
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Johneturbo

posted on 17/8/10 at 05:39 PM Reply With Quote
keep up at the back!

http://www.locostbuilders.co.uk/viewthread.php?tid=141555

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mistergrumpy

posted on 17/8/10 at 06:14 PM Reply With Quote
Leave him to it and let him deal with it how he wants. Its up to him.
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dilley

posted on 17/8/10 at 09:12 PM Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Johneturbo
keep up at the back!

http://www.locostbuilders.co.uk/viewthread.php?tid=141555


Stay away from them!

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alistairolsen

posted on 17/8/10 at 09:26 PM Reply With Quote
Its the internet. The problem isnt with bullying, it's with taking the internet seriously in the first place. I use a lot of forums and this is one of the most PC.

To answer the question, sorting it out is rising to it, leaving is just churlish and involving Fozzie is a bit "tell the teacher" so I'd just ignore it completely





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bmseven

posted on 17/8/10 at 10:00 PM Reply With Quote
And the point of this thread is





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Angel Acevedo

posted on 17/8/10 at 10:52 PM Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fozzie
I am always here to help and assist when required.......but first I have to be made aware that there is a problem......everything is always confidential, and will stay that way.

But if no-one has contacted me to say that they do have a problem, I am unable to do anything....

Asking the 'victim' to 'name and shame' would also put pressure on the person when that person is already upset.

I know you mean well Angel, but really this thread is pointless...sorry...

Fozzie


Fair enough.
But the poll shows different.
And that was the point of the poll, let the offended party know what the majority of us think while keeping it anonymous (sp?) enough.
Finally, the offended party will do what he think it´s best not what we want him to do.

ETA: Well kind of pointless now that it´s been sorted. (I have just read the original thread)

[Edited on 8/17/2010 by Angel Acevedo]





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